Booklist for parents, adolescents and teachers
The School Wobblies ; by Chris Wever
School phobia
The School Wobblies is a book about the worries and the scary thoughts lurking in the minds of children who can't go to school. It is also about dealing with those worries and developing ways of thinking and coping to allow a return to school.
In the book the worries and thoughts appear as "School Wobblies" who try to get the child to stay at home by generating as much trouble as possible and by taking advantage of anything which is making the child vulnerable and unreasonably fearful. The book exposes the tricks the Wobblies play to get the child to stay away from school. Fears and anxieties are illustrated and so are techniques for beating the Wobblies.
Too blue ; Written and Drawn by Neil Phillips
The World Health Organisation says that depression
will be one of the major causes of death and suffering in the
twenty first century. Depression is common, troublesome, painful
and dangerous. It is frequently overlooked and often mistaken
for mere blues and blahs.
Written for adults but also useful to teenagers, Too Blue, will
take you on a journey into the world of depression. Through words
and cartoons this book vividly illustrates and explains depression
and other mood disorders. The simple text and many drawings bring
the symptoms of depression and the havoc of mania into clear focus.
Treatments are described and explained in a balanced way. A special
section is provided for those who want to know something about
the underlying workings of the brain and how they relate to depression.
Too Blue is an encouraging book which tackles tough topics like
suicide in a clear and helpful way. It is a book which will prove
useful to those who suffer from depression and for other people
too. After all, just about everybody, sooner or later, is involved
with someone who is seriously depressed.
The author and illustrator of Too Blue is a psychiatrist who shares
with the reader knowledge and optimism acquired through decades
of helping depressed people battle their painful illness.
The Secret Problem ; by Chris Wever
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder in Children
About two percent of children and teenagers have
Obsessive Compulsive disorder and it makes them very miserable.
It is also very hard on families. Because the symptoms feel so
strange many children are frightened and ashamed so they keep
what is happening to them secret. They also often get into trouble
because of their rituals and concerns. It is very important for
families and children to seek help because there are effective
treatments and the problem can cause major disability if allowed
to develop unchecked. The text of the book is very simple and
the drawings are clear and bring the symptoms and solutions to
life. This book will be very valuable to children with OCD and
it will also help adults with the disorder.
The Secret Problem is written by Dr Chris Wever and the drawings
are by Dr Neil Phillips both of whom are psychiatrists with years
of experience working with OCD.
The Panic Book ; Written and drawn by Neil Phillips
Panic Disorder
Panic Disorder is common and very troublesome.
About three people in a hundred have it at some stage in life
and many of those who have panic attacks go on to develop agoraphobia
which ruins their lives. Having a full blown panic attack is a
horrifying business and feels deadly, although it's not.
Panic attacks can happen to anyone including those who have proved
themselves very brave under other circumstances. Often, someone
who has panic attacks thinks that he or she is the only person
who has such weird and unpleasant experiences. Someone who has
panic attacks may be reluctant to speak about it and take elaborate
steps to avoid doing things, which may bring on the panic again.
Madness or some deadly illness is feared and life becomes miserable.
Avoiding doing things and amplifying worries only make the Panic
Disorder worse.
Most of the suffering caused by Panic Disorder is unnecessary
because effective treatments are available and safe.
"The Panic Book" will tell you a lot about panic and it will tell
you how it can be treated and beaten. It is written and illustrated
by a Psychiatrist who has worked with panicky people for many
years.
Helping Your Anxious Child - A Step-by-step guide for parents ; by Ronald Rapee
This book's authors, who teach and practise clinical psychology in Australia, describing various forms of childhood anxiety, and show parents how to help their child to develop the skills necessary to manage their anxiety, including relaxation, thinking realistically, facing up to fears, and learning better social interaction.
The Explosive Child - A new approach for understanding and parenting easily frustrated, chronically inflexible children ; by Ross Greene.
There is no 'one size fits all' approach to helping these children who are variously diagnosed with any of a variety of psychiatric disorders- and are simply hell to live with. Greene describes an approach aimed at decreasing adversarial interactions between explosive children and their parents to anticipate situations in which the child is most likely to explode, focusing less on communication and collaborative problem solving. This is a very helpful book for the parents of the child who has striking inflexibility and low frustration tolerance.
The Confident Child- Raising children to believe in themselves ; by Terri Apter
This book on children's self-esteem concentrates on the crucial years from five to fifteen when children learn to assess their abilities and form expectations of success or failure. Social psychologist and Cambridge researcher Terri Apter draws on her own extensive research and, using the technique known as emotional coaching, shows parents how to promote self- confidence in their child. She concentrates on how parents can spot problems in a child's ideals about who she is and what she is worth; how to be an imperfect parent without ruining your child's life; how to deal with success and failure at school; and the effects of sibling rivalry on self- confidence. This is a hugely insightful and reassuring book. It has won an Educator's Award in the USA.
Good Friends Are Hard Too Find- Help your child find, make and keep friends ; by Fred Frankel.
Fred Frankel heads the UCLA Social Skills Training Program. His book is based on the program and guides parents - in a systematic, step-by-step approach - in helping their 5- 12 year-olds to make friends and solve problems with other children. It also offers concrete help for teasing, bullying and meanness, both for the child who is picking on and for the tormentors.
Conflict Resolution Activities That Work ; by Kathleen Hollenbeck.
The activities in this book - designed for second and third graders - build students' confidence in their ability to solve and prevent problems. Puppet plays, story strips, conflict cubes, listening wheels, a student play and the use of storybooks are all tools at the disposal of the classroom teacher, requiring no advance planning. Includes photocopiable handouts.
Helping Children to Build Self-Esteem - A photocopiable activities book ; by Deborah Plummer.
The self-esteem activities in this book encourages children to use their natural imaginative and creative abilities to consider their relationships with themselves, their families and friends and their world. The writing and drawing exercises, suitable for group or individual work, mainstream and special classes, are brief and uncomplicated, and come with facilitator notes and expansion activities. Primary level.
Self-Esteem Games- 300 fun activities that make children feel good about themselves ; by Barbara Sher
The games described here are meant to be played by two people: you and your child. There are group games too, and games for children all ages (under5 as well) and either sex. Barbara Sher emphasizes the child's strengths and abilities, expressing everyday feelings and reactions, and building relationships by being with friends and trusting others. There are games that celebrate uniqueness, and games that build confidence by getting to know one's body and senses. There is no special preparation or equipment needed, and the games can be played virtually anywhere.
I Want Your Moo - A story for children about self-esteem ; Written by Marcella Weiner and Jill Neimark, illus.
Toodles the turkey hates her 'gobble gobble'. She wanted a sound that was deep and profound or soft as a song. Toodles is sad and unhappy until one day her unique sound comes in handy. 'I guess I am the way I was always meant to be' she says. This story reinforces the uniqueness we all possess, 4- 8 years.
Self- Esteem For Tots To Teens- How you can help your children feel more confident and lovable ; by Eugene Anderson et al.
In this book the authors recommend five principles for building self- esteem in children. The five chapters illustrate how to apply each of these principles, along with vignettes, and are organised into three sections: Early Childhood, Middle Childhood, and Teens. The case studies and the principles combine to give parents practical strategies to tackle a range of childhood and teenager issues.
It can happen to anyone - in fact, 1 in 5 people will suffer from a form of depression at some time in life. So if the 'Black Dog' has moved into your life, you need a training manual.
Taming the Black Dog by Bev Aisbett, author of the hugely successful Living with IT, is a simple guide to managing depression, and is aimed to make you the master of the Black Dog, instead of his victim.
Featuring a wealth of information on depression as well as practical tips for overcoming it, Taming the Black Dog is unique in that it deals with the subject in an informative yet lighthearted manner, the text being cleverly supplemented by the author's own witty cartoon drawings.
Chapters include:
Taming the Black Dog, with its unique blend of wit, information and practical tips, will be an invaluable guide for sufferers of depression and anyone with a fit of 'the blues'.
Bev wrote and illustrated 'LIVING WITH IT' after experiencing an episode of severe anxiety. This book has now sold over 100,000 copies within Australia and overseas and is a recommended text by numerous health workers, counsellors, etc. It is also distributed to GPs nationwide. The cartoon format of this book proved to be so effective in simplifying, explaining and providing reassurance that 4 books have now followed using the same format to explain complex health concerns: 'LIVING IT UP' (1994), 'LETTING IT GO', 1996 on Anxiety; 'GET REAL' (1996) on Body Image and 'TAMING THE BLACK DOG' (2000) on Depression
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Other Reading Material
- The Panic Book By Neil Phillips
- Overcoming Anxiety: A Primer For Better Life Management By Lynn Fossum
- The Self Esteem Workbook: An Interactive Approach To Changing Your Life By Lynda Field
- The Seven Habits Of Highly Effective Teens By Sean Covey
- The Feeling Good Handbook By David D. Burns, MD
- When Perfect Isn't Good Enough: Strategies For Coping With Perfectionism. By Martin M. Antony, Ph.D. & Richard P. Swinson, MD
- Chicken Soup For The Teen Soul By Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen and Kimberly Kirberger.
- Chicken Soup For The Teen Soul II By Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen and Kimberly Kirberger.
- Reviving Ophelia By Mary Pipher, Ph.D.
- What You Can Change And What You Can't By Martin E.P. Seligman, Ph.D.
- The Puberty Game By John Court
- Sorting Out Worry By Grant Brecht
- Sorting Out Relationships By Grant Brecht
- Lonely, Sad And Angry: A Parents Guide To Depression In Children And Adolescents By Barbara D. Ingersoll, Ph.D. & Sam Goldstein, Ph.D.
- How You Feel Is Up To You By Gary D. McKay, Ph.D. & Don Dinkmeyer, Ph.D.
- Life Happens By Kathy McCoy, Ph.D. & Charles Wibbelsman, MD
- Teen Esteem: A Self Direction Manual For Young Adults By Pat Palmer & Melissa Alberti Froehner
- Overcoming Panic, Anxiety And Phobias By Shirly Babior And Carol Goldman
- More Energizers And Ice Breakers: For All Ages And Stages By Elizabeth S. Fosters & Harrirson Ed. D.




