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The School Wobblies ; by Chris Wever
School phobia

Some children find it very hard to go to school. If they refuse to go it can wreck their education and cause parents and schools a lot of worry and frustration.  
 
The School Wobblies is a book about the worries and the scary thoughts lurking in the minds of children who can't go to school. It is also about dealing with those worries and developing ways of thinking and coping to allow a return to school.  
 
In the book the worries and thoughts appear as "School Wobblies" who try to get the child to stay at home by generating as much trouble as possible and by taking advantage of anything which is making the child vulnerable and unreasonably fearful. The book exposes the tricks the Wobblies play to get the child to stay away from school. Fears and anxieties are illustrated and so are techniques for beating the Wobblies.



Too blue ; Written and Drawn by Neil Phillips

The World Health Organisation says that depression will be one of the major causes of death and suffering in the twenty first century. Depression is common, troublesome, painful and dangerous. It is frequently overlooked and often mistaken for mere blues and blahs.  
 
Written for adults but also useful to teenagers, Too Blue, will take you on a journey into the world of depression. Through words and cartoons this book vividly illustrates and explains depression and other mood disorders. The simple text and many drawings bring the symptoms of depression and the havoc of mania into clear focus. Treatments are described and explained in a balanced way. A special section is provided for those who want to know something about the underlying workings of the brain and how they relate to depression.  
 
Too Blue is an encouraging book which tackles tough topics like suicide in a clear and helpful way. It is a book which will prove useful to those who suffer from depression and for other people too. After all, just about everybody, sooner or later, is involved with someone who is seriously depressed.  
 
The author and illustrator of Too Blue is a psychiatrist who shares with the reader knowledge and optimism acquired through decades of helping depressed people battle their painful illness.




The Secret Problem ; by Chris Wever
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder in Children

About two percent of children and teenagers have Obsessive Compulsive disorder and it makes them very miserable. It is also very hard on families. Because the symptoms feel so strange many children are frightened and ashamed so they keep what is happening to them secret. They also often get into trouble because of their rituals and concerns. It is very important for families and children to seek help because there are effective treatments and the problem can cause major disability if allowed to develop unchecked. The text of the book is very simple and the drawings are clear and bring the symptoms and solutions to life. This book will be very valuable to children with OCD and it will also help adults with the disorder.  
 
The Secret Problem is written by Dr Chris Wever and the drawings are by Dr Neil Phillips both of whom are psychiatrists with years of experience working with OCD.




The Panic Book ; Written and drawn by Neil Phillips
Panic Disorder

Panic Disorder is common and very troublesome. About three people in a hundred have it at some stage in life and many of those who have panic attacks go on to develop agoraphobia which ruins their lives. Having a full blown panic attack is a horrifying business and feels deadly, although it's not.  
 
Panic attacks can happen to anyone including those who have proved themselves very brave under other circumstances. Often, someone who has panic attacks thinks that he or she is the only person who has such weird and unpleasant experiences. Someone who has panic attacks may be reluctant to speak about it and take elaborate steps to avoid doing things, which may bring on the panic again. Madness or some deadly illness is feared and life becomes miserable. Avoiding doing things and amplifying worries only make the Panic Disorder worse.  
 
Most of the suffering caused by Panic Disorder is unnecessary because effective treatments are available and safe.  
 
"The Panic Book" will tell you a lot about panic and it will tell you how it can be treated and beaten. It is written and illustrated by a Psychiatrist who has worked with panicky people for many years.




Helping Your Anxious Child - A Step-by-step guide for parents ; by Ronald Rapee

This book's authors, who teach and practise clinical psychology in Australia, describing various forms of childhood anxiety, and show parents how to help their child to develop the skills necessary to manage their anxiety, including relaxation, thinking realistically, facing up to fears, and learning better social interaction.




The Explosive Child - A new approach for understanding and parenting easily frustrated, chronically inflexible children ; by Ross Greene.

There is no 'one size fits all' approach to helping these children who are variously diagnosed with any of a variety of psychiatric disorders- and are simply hell to live with. Greene describes an approach aimed at decreasing adversarial interactions between explosive children and their parents to anticipate situations in which the child is most likely to explode, focusing less on communication and collaborative problem solving. This is a very helpful book for the parents of the child who has striking inflexibility and low frustration tolerance.

Boost Your Child's Self- Esteem- simple, effective ways to build children's self- respect and confidence ; by Karin Ireland.
This book is organised around a number of key themes affecting the development of children's self- esteem and their respect for others, and contains simple messages to focus parents' attention on these themes. This book is very quick and easy-to-access little book on the fundamental principals for developing self-esteem in children.



The Confident Child- Raising children to believe in themselves ; by Terri Apter

This book on children's self-esteem concentrates on the crucial years from five to fifteen when children learn to assess their abilities and form expectations of success or failure. Social psychologist and Cambridge researcher Terri Apter draws on her own extensive research and, using the technique known as emotional coaching, shows parents how to promote self- confidence in their child. She concentrates on how parents can spot problems in a child's ideals about who she is and what she is worth; how to be an imperfect parent without ruining your child's life; how to deal with success and failure at school; and the effects of sibling rivalry on self- confidence. This is a hugely insightful and reassuring book. It has won an Educator's Award in the USA.




Good Friends Are Hard Too Find- Help your child find, make and keep friends ; by Fred Frankel.

Fred Frankel heads the UCLA Social Skills Training Program. His book is based on the program and guides parents - in a systematic, step-by-step approach - in helping their 5- 12 year-olds to make friends and solve problems with other children. It also offers concrete help for teasing, bullying and meanness, both for the child who is picking on and for the tormentors.




Conflict Resolution Activities That Work ; by Kathleen Hollenbeck.

The activities in this book - designed for second and third graders - build students' confidence in their ability to solve and prevent problems. Puppet plays, story strips, conflict cubes, listening wheels, a student play and the use of storybooks are all tools at the disposal of the classroom teacher, requiring no advance planning. Includes photocopiable handouts.




Helping Children to Build Self-Esteem - A photocopiable activities book ; by Deborah Plummer.

The self-esteem activities in this book encourages children to use their natural imaginative and creative abilities to consider their relationships with themselves, their families and friends and their world. The writing and drawing exercises, suitable for group or individual work, mainstream and special classes, are brief and uncomplicated, and come with facilitator notes and expansion activities. Primary level.




Self-Esteem Games- 300 fun activities that make children feel good about themselves ; by Barbara Sher

The games described here are meant to be played by two people: you and your child. There are group games too, and games for children all ages (under5 as well) and either sex. Barbara Sher emphasizes the child's strengths and abilities, expressing everyday feelings and reactions, and building relationships by being with friends and trusting others. There are games that celebrate uniqueness, and games that build confidence by getting to know one's body and senses. There is no special preparation or equipment needed, and the games can be played virtually anywhere.




I Want Your Moo - A story for children about self-esteem ; Written by Marcella Weiner and Jill Neimark, illus.

Toodles the turkey hates her 'gobble gobble'. She wanted a sound that was deep and profound or soft as a song. Toodles is sad and unhappy until one day her unique sound comes in handy. 'I guess I am the way I was always meant to be' she says. This story reinforces the uniqueness we all possess, 4- 8 years.




Self- Esteem For Tots To Teens- How you can help your children feel more confident and lovable ; by Eugene Anderson et al.

In this book the authors recommend five principles for building self- esteem in children. The five chapters illustrate how to apply each of these principles, along with vignettes, and are organised into three sections: Early Childhood, Middle Childhood, and Teens. The case studies and the principles combine to give parents practical strategies to tackle a range of childhood and teenager issues.




The Shy Child - Helping children triumph over shyness ; by Ward Swallow.
Swallow argues that shyness is a personality style with many positive aspects- but one that can hinder a child's development and happiness if it prevents him from having a normal social life. Feelings of anxiety having a biological basis, but they can be modified and controlled by changing behaviour and regulating self-talk. Swallow teaches parents how to strengthen and enrich their relationship with their child, how to establish effective communication, and what kinds of activities will desensitize her to anxiety- provoking situations. The components of shyness work include observation, daily discussion, scripting, role- playing and reviewing.



Sticks and Stones - 7 ways your child can deal with teasing, conflict and other hard times ; by Scott Cooper



Scott Cooper has adapted many of the common principles used in assertiveness training, as well as elements of cognitive therapy & mindfulness, into a verbal toolbox that children can use to deal with common childhood taunts. Each chapter, based on the characteristics of a particular bird, uses a wealth of examples, sample scripts, and imaginative, easy-to-follow exercises to give children the confidence to speak up for themselves more assertively.



From Surviving to Thriving - Promoting mental health in young people ; by Andrew Fuller
Andrew Full, a clinical psychologist, has worked for many years with troubled young people. His book discusses engagement strategies and interventions to change problematic patterns, as well as approaches to specific issues such as anger, aggression, bullying, suicide and suicidal feelings, self-harm & substance abuse.



Is My Teenager In Trouble? - A parents guide to serious adolescent problem ; by Dr. Joseph Rey
Joseph Rey investigates what happens problems become disorders: what to look for, how and when to seek help, and what treatments are available. Issues such as depression and mood swings, disruptive behaviour, personality disorders and suicidal behaviour are discussed, with parents, particularly, in mind.



The Self-Esteem Workbook ; by Glenn Schiraldi
Intended for adults but equally applicable to adolescents and, when slightly simplified, for children as well, this workbook provides insight and techniques for improving those areas that sometimes make us question ourselves and our self-worth. It is described as a companion guide to McKay and Fanning's popular 'Self Esteem' and is equally as thorough. The approach unfolds logically, beginning with a difinition and supporting model, followed by a holistic sill-building approach to nurturing self-esteem.



Teen Esteem - A self direction manual for young adults ; Palmer & Froehner
Pat Palmer's best-selling title has been re-issued and remains the most popular title in its catergory. She looks at goals and rights, assertiveness and anger, refusal skills and avoiding manipulation, choices and decision-making, freedom and responsibility. There are activities and exercises, summaries and illustrations - all designed for the teenager facing a myriad endless challenges.



The Childhood Depression Source Book ; by Jeffrey Miller
The most valuable aspect of this book for parents and educators is the information provided on how to identify children that are depressed and how to significantly reduce their suffering (the section on treatment modalities is extensive). Miller is assistant professor of psychology at Duquesne University in Pittsburgh. His relatively non-technical writing covers the explicit definitions of childhood depression - through the developmental stages of early childhood, late childhood and adolescence - and its associated symptoms, and a detailed analysis of hos psychologists and psychiatrists make their diagnoses. Many children go undiagnosed, argues Miller, and their physical aggression, delinquent actions and eating or sleeping problems are misread. There are valuable sections on crisis management and working with your child's school.



Growing Up Sad - Childhood depression and its treatment ; Catryn & McKnew
The authors" pioneering work has resulted in the widespread recognition that childhood depression is an all too common psychological reaction to environmental stress and genetic heritage. Here they explain the current understanding of this disorder and offer guidance for parents, teachers and counsellors on distinguishing depression from ordinary sadness and seeking appropriate treatment. Wile giving specific advice on recognising healing the depressed or suicidal child, the authors show how mood disorders reduce the quality of life at any age and how to relieve the hardships felt by these children and their families.



Lonely, Sad and Angry - A parent's guide to depression in children and adolescents ; Ingersoll & Goldstein
Using DSM-IV guidelines, the authors outline the perceived characteristics of child and adolescent depression, and suggest guidelines for parental intervention. This book does not treat the parent as stupid. It trusts the carer to understand the language of depression - major depression, dysthymia and bipolar - and related disorders such as anxiety, OCD, conduct disorders, ODD etc. We are privy to how a child is diagnosed and evaluated as depressed, and lengthy chapters on 'what we can do about it' how the family can help, and what the teacher can do.



Ups And Downs- How to beat the blues and teen depression ; Klebanoff & Luborsky
This is a jazzy, pint- sized book to put into the back pocket and sneak a look at when you're trying to work out what's going on to make you feel so lousy. Ninety pages of help include references to self- esteem, eating disorders, feelings- and lots of stories from other kids.



You Anxious Child- How parents and teachers can relieve anxiety in children ; by Dacey & Fiore.
John Dacey has developed the COPE method specifically to help children with anxiety problems. He offers activities that will help parents and health professionals to practice the strategies with the child. Some of these activities are for 5- 10 year- olds, some are for 10- 17 year- olds, and some are useful for the whole age range.



Bully Busting- How to help children deal with teasing and bullying ; by Evelyn Field
Evelyn Field's well- researched book is jam- packed with ideas for parents, teachers and kids to use against the bully. Her 'six secrets of bully busting' is activity- based, focusing on assertive and self- protective skills. Many of the stories and ideas are designed to bring a smile to the child's face. 'Once children can smile,' she writes, 'they are better equipped to change their attitude and consequently what they can do' This book is aimed at primary and secondary school children.



Stop Picking On Me - A first look at bullying ; by Pat Thomas
Psychotherapist and counsellor, Pat Thomas, has written a new storybook for children who are both bullies and bullied. (Her previous book is 'My Family's Changing: A first look at family break- up' (1999) Thomas asks the questions and the attempts to answer them. Why is it that some kids are bullies? How does it make you feel to be bullied? What can you do about it? (Talk about it. Let people who love you help. Feel good about yourself.) Hints for parents and teachers are listed at the back of the book.



Why Is Everybody Always Picking On Me?- A guide to handling bullies ; Terrence Webster-Doyle.
This large- format book is filled with creative stories and activities on how to resolve conflicts without harm. It is workbook of sorts, allowing the child to enter his own thoughts and reactions, using the stories as a prompt.



Stop The Bullying- A handbook for schools ; by Ken Rigby
South Australian- based educator Ken Rigby has spent the past twelve years researching bullying and in this handbook translates the academic jargon into an accessible form for teachers. This information will be used by some schools to form their own anti- bullying program. For others, it will supplement what is already happening at the school level.



TAMING THE BLACK DO G- A Guide to Overcoming Depression By Bev Aisbett
Don't want to get out of bed in the morning? Feeling as though the light is fading at the end of the tunnel? Winston Churchill suffered from depression all his life. He named his depression the 'Black Dog.'  
 
It can happen to anyone - in fact, 1 in 5 people will suffer from a form of depression at some time in life. So if the 'Black Dog' has moved into your life, you need a training manual.  
 
Taming the Black Dog by Bev Aisbett, author of the hugely successful Living with IT, is a simple guide to managing depression, and is aimed to make you the master of the Black Dog, instead of his victim.  
 
Featuring a wealth of information on depression as well as practical tips for overcoming it, Taming the Black Dog is unique in that it deals with the subject in an informative yet lighthearted manner, the text being cleverly supplemented by the author's own witty cartoon drawings.  
 
Chapters include:
  • Fleas, Fur Balls & Muddy Paw Prints: The Impact of Depression
  • Bad Dog!: Self-esteem and depression
  • Give a Dog a Bone: Thinking and depression
  • Fetch: Going for recovery
  • Off to the Vets: Choosing professional help
  • New Tricks: Keeping recovery on track  
     
    Taming the Black Dog, with its unique blend of wit, information and practical tips, will be an invaluable guide for sufferers of depression and anyone with a fit of 'the blues'.  
     
    Bev wrote and illustrated 'LIVING WITH IT' after experiencing an episode of severe anxiety. This book has now sold over 100,000 copies within Australia and overseas and is a recommended text by numerous health workers, counsellors, etc. It is also distributed to GPs nationwide. The cartoon format of this book proved to be so effective in simplifying, explaining and providing reassurance that 4 books have now followed using the same format to explain complex health concerns: 'LIVING IT UP' (1994), 'LETTING IT GO', 1996 on Anxiety; 'GET REAL' (1996) on Body Image and 'TAMING THE BLACK DOG' (2000) on Depression



  • Family & Friends - Support

    Calm Kids ; by Shirley Lane-Smith
    Using alternative terapies to give your child the gift of inner peace
    Fighting Invisible Tigers ; by Earl Hipp
    Helping Your Depressed Teenager ; by Oster and Montgomery
    Help Me I'm Sad ; by David Fassler and Lynne Dumas
    Hot Stuff To Help Kids Chill Out ; Jerry Wilde
     
     
     
    (The books for Family & Friends - Support was obtained from the www.depressionet.com.au)



    Other Reading Material

    1. The Panic Book By Neil Phillips
    2. Overcoming Anxiety: A Primer For Better Life Management By Lynn Fossum
    3. The Self Esteem Workbook: An Interactive Approach To Changing Your Life By Lynda Field
    4. The Seven Habits Of Highly Effective Teens By Sean Covey
    5. The Feeling Good Handbook By David D. Burns, MD
    6. When Perfect Isn't Good Enough: Strategies For Coping With Perfectionism. By Martin M. Antony, Ph.D. & Richard P. Swinson, MD
    7. Chicken Soup For The Teen Soul By Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen and Kimberly Kirberger.
    8. Chicken Soup For The Teen Soul II By Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen and Kimberly Kirberger.
    9. Reviving Ophelia By Mary Pipher, Ph.D.
    10. What You Can Change And What You Can't By Martin E.P. Seligman, Ph.D.
    11. The Puberty Game By John Court
    12. Sorting Out Worry By Grant Brecht
    13. Sorting Out Relationships By Grant Brecht
    14. Lonely, Sad And Angry: A Parents Guide To Depression In Children And Adolescents By Barbara D. Ingersoll, Ph.D. & Sam Goldstein, Ph.D.
    15. How You Feel Is Up To You By Gary D. McKay, Ph.D. & Don Dinkmeyer, Ph.D.
    16. Life Happens By Kathy McCoy, Ph.D. & Charles Wibbelsman, MD
    17. Teen Esteem: A Self Direction Manual For Young Adults By Pat Palmer & Melissa Alberti Froehner
    18. Overcoming Panic, Anxiety And Phobias By Shirly Babior And Carol Goldman
    19. More Energizers And Ice Breakers: For All Ages And Stages By Elizabeth S. Fosters & Harrirson Ed. D.
     
     
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